A nice story about patience.
One evening a father with his son who just graduated high sat chatting in the yard watching the atmosphere around them. Suddenly a bird perched on a tree branch. The father then pointed toward and he asked, "Son, what is that?" "Wren bird", replied the boy.
The father nodded, but a few moments and then repeat the same question. The boy thought his father had not heard the answer and then answered with a little hard, "That bird is Wren, father!"
But a moment later the father again asked the same question. The child felt a little angry with the same question and repeated, then answered with a louder, "Wren bird!"
The father was silent at once. But not long after once again ask the same questions that make the child lose patience and replied in a tone reluctant to answer questions the father, "Wren, father .......".
But the surprising return of the child, some time later the father once again opened his mouth just posed the same question. And this time the child is really losing his temper and become angry.
"Daddy! I do not understand or do not understand you. But it's five times the you asked that question and I also gained already provided the answer. Is that you wanted me to say? That bird is Wren, father .....", says the child with a very angry tone.
The father then got up and went into the house leaving the child "Where's father?". A moment later the father came out with something in his hand. He handed it to his son who was still angry and wonder. It turned out that the object is an old diary.
"Why do not you ever read what the father wrote in this diary?," pleaded the father. The boy obeyed, and read the following sections ..........
"Today I was in the yard with my son that even five years old. Suddenly a bird perched in a tree. My son continues to point towards that bird and asked," Dad, what is it? ". And I replied,"Wren bird ". Although the however, my son kept asking the same question and each time I answered the same answer.
Up to 21 times so my son asked, and for the sake of love and affection I kept feeling the urge to respond to meet him. I hope that this has become a valuable education. I'm glad he asked me, every time he asks the larger sense dear to him, so that the complete answer I've always embraced him with love "
After reading that section of the child looked up at his father's face that looked wistful. The father quietly voiced, "Today i just ask you the same question five times, and you have lost patience and anger."
Then the child is with regret and loving embrace of his father.
Are not we too often do the same thing? Give love, give love, if we forget that what they have done diving we were children far beyond our frustration when they are elderly..
The father nodded, but a few moments and then repeat the same question. The boy thought his father had not heard the answer and then answered with a little hard, "That bird is Wren, father!"
But a moment later the father again asked the same question. The child felt a little angry with the same question and repeated, then answered with a louder, "Wren bird!"
The father was silent at once. But not long after once again ask the same questions that make the child lose patience and replied in a tone reluctant to answer questions the father, "Wren, father .......".
But the surprising return of the child, some time later the father once again opened his mouth just posed the same question. And this time the child is really losing his temper and become angry.
"Daddy! I do not understand or do not understand you. But it's five times the you asked that question and I also gained already provided the answer. Is that you wanted me to say? That bird is Wren, father .....", says the child with a very angry tone.
The father then got up and went into the house leaving the child "Where's father?". A moment later the father came out with something in his hand. He handed it to his son who was still angry and wonder. It turned out that the object is an old diary.
"Why do not you ever read what the father wrote in this diary?," pleaded the father. The boy obeyed, and read the following sections ..........
"Today I was in the yard with my son that even five years old. Suddenly a bird perched in a tree. My son continues to point towards that bird and asked," Dad, what is it? ". And I replied,"Wren bird ". Although the however, my son kept asking the same question and each time I answered the same answer.
Up to 21 times so my son asked, and for the sake of love and affection I kept feeling the urge to respond to meet him. I hope that this has become a valuable education. I'm glad he asked me, every time he asks the larger sense dear to him, so that the complete answer I've always embraced him with love "
After reading that section of the child looked up at his father's face that looked wistful. The father quietly voiced, "Today i just ask you the same question five times, and you have lost patience and anger."
Then the child is with regret and loving embrace of his father.
Are not we too often do the same thing? Give love, give love, if we forget that what they have done diving we were children far beyond our frustration when they are elderly..
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