A nice story about the power of the words....
In Europe there is the story of a famous singer, a woman who has a great voice. This woman married to a music player and song writer. The husband is so smart in the field of music that he always found what must be corrected when the wife is singing.
When there was always singing his wife's comments and criticisms such as the front is not high enough, the next time he says this part is less quietly, other times he says the end should "crunch" .. go up a bit, etc. .. there's always a caustic comment that he catapult that his wife singing and humming.
Finally his wife lazy to sing. Since what she sang there was always wrong, so always be quarrels arise among them.
Long story short, due to an accident, the husband died, and shortly afterwards she married a plumber. This plumber did not know anything about music. That he knew his wife a nice voice and he always praised his wife while singing.
Once when his wife asked: "My dear, how my song?" and he said to his wife: "Honey ... I have always wanted to go home because they want to hear you sing!" Another time he said, "Honey .. if I'm not married to you, maybe I was deaf ... because the sound of the pounding, the sound of saws, friction plumbing pipes and other sounds that I hear all day if I work .... Before I married you ... I often dream and the ringing sound of saws and other uncomfortable when sleeping. Now after marriage and often hear you sing ... your song that resonated ... "
His wife was greatly rejoiced, felt flattered by the praise it receives acceptable and makes her fond of singing, chanting and singing ... When she take a bath she sang, she sang and cook without realizing she was practicing, practicing and practicing.
Her husband pushed until she began recording and released the first volume and the tapes were welcomed by the community. This woman eventually became a famous singer, and she was not famous when her husband who is an expert on music, but when her husband is a plumber, who gave her a little praise when she sang.
A little praise to give receipts ... received little praise to give a sense of passion ... give encouragement ... and the urge to do things better and better. A little praise can make a person could reach the highest achievement that can be achieved.
Nagging, yelling, criticism, anger or criticism that is not built is not much change ... So, let us give each other a little compliment one another. Good to our children, to our spouses, to friends, to anyone who needs motivation to keep moving forward, not the words that dropped.
When there was always singing his wife's comments and criticisms such as the front is not high enough, the next time he says this part is less quietly, other times he says the end should "crunch" .. go up a bit, etc. .. there's always a caustic comment that he catapult that his wife singing and humming.
Finally his wife lazy to sing. Since what she sang there was always wrong, so always be quarrels arise among them.
Long story short, due to an accident, the husband died, and shortly afterwards she married a plumber. This plumber did not know anything about music. That he knew his wife a nice voice and he always praised his wife while singing.
Once when his wife asked: "My dear, how my song?" and he said to his wife: "Honey ... I have always wanted to go home because they want to hear you sing!" Another time he said, "Honey .. if I'm not married to you, maybe I was deaf ... because the sound of the pounding, the sound of saws, friction plumbing pipes and other sounds that I hear all day if I work .... Before I married you ... I often dream and the ringing sound of saws and other uncomfortable when sleeping. Now after marriage and often hear you sing ... your song that resonated ... "
His wife was greatly rejoiced, felt flattered by the praise it receives acceptable and makes her fond of singing, chanting and singing ... When she take a bath she sang, she sang and cook without realizing she was practicing, practicing and practicing.
Her husband pushed until she began recording and released the first volume and the tapes were welcomed by the community. This woman eventually became a famous singer, and she was not famous when her husband who is an expert on music, but when her husband is a plumber, who gave her a little praise when she sang.
A little praise to give receipts ... received little praise to give a sense of passion ... give encouragement ... and the urge to do things better and better. A little praise can make a person could reach the highest achievement that can be achieved.
Nagging, yelling, criticism, anger or criticism that is not built is not much change ... So, let us give each other a little compliment one another. Good to our children, to our spouses, to friends, to anyone who needs motivation to keep moving forward, not the words that dropped.
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