There was a young girl who loved to dance. Cleverness dancing very prominent compared with her partner, so she often became champions in the various competitions are held. She thought, with what they have today, in a moment if she grows up she wants to be a world-class dancer. She imagines herself dancing in Russia, China, America, Japan, and watched by thousands of people who applaud her.
One day, her city visited by an expert dance originating from abroad. This expert is very great, and from cold hands have a lot of born world-class dancers. This young girl wanted to dance and show her skill in front of the expert, even if it might get the chance to become her disciple. Finally the opportunity came, too. The young girl managed to meet the experts behind the stage, after a dance performance. The young girl asked "Sir, I wanted to be a world-class dancer. Do you have a moment, to judge my dancing? I want to know your opinion about my dance". "Okay, dance in front of me for 10 minutes", said the expert.
Not to mention the 10 minutes passed, the experts stood from his chair and left the young girl passed away, without saying a word. What destroyed the young girl saw the attitude of the expert. The girl ran out. Back home, she immediately burst into tears. she became a hate towards herself. Apparently during this dance that she is proud, proud is not nothing in the face of the expert. Then she took her dance shoes, and she cast into the warehouse. Since then, she vowed never to dance again.
Dozens of years passed. The young girl has now become a mother with three children. Her husband had died. And to support her family, she worked as a waitress from the corner store.
One day, there is a dance show which was held in the city. It seems the experts were among the youth dancing backstage. The experts seem old, with hair that was white. The young mother with three children also came to the dance performances. After the event, this mother brought her three children into the back of the stage, looking for the expert, and introduces her three children to the expert. The experts still recognize this young mother, and then they talked intimately.
The mother asked, "Sir, there is one question that lump in my heart. It's about my appearance while dancing in front of you many years ago. Whether the very bad for my appearance at the time, so you immediately walk away just like that, without saying a word ".
"Oh yes, I remember that event. Frankly, I've never seen dance as beautiful as you did at that time. I think you will be a world-class dancer. I do not understand why you came to the 2nd stop of the dance world," replied the expert.
The young mother was very surprised to hear answers to the expert. "It's not fair", exclaimed the young mother. "Your attitude has stolen all my dreams. If it was my good dance, why you left me just when I just danced a few minutes. You should praise me, and not just ignored me. Should I become a world-class dancer. Not only being a shop assistant ".
The experts answered again with a quiet "No. .. No, I think I've done it right. YOU DO NOT HAVE DRINK WINE ONE WINE BARREL to PROVE THAT GOOD. Likewise I. I do not have to watch you 10 minutes to prove you are good dance. That night I was also very tired after the show. So I leave you for a moment, to take my card, and hope you will contact me again the next day. But you are gone when I came out. And one more thing you should bear in mind, that IS YOU FOCUS ON YOUR DREAM, ACTION OR NOT ON MY ACKNOWLEDGMENTS.
Then praise? You expect a compliment? Ah, then you're growing. Praise is like double-edged sword. There are times when motivated you, anyway can make you weak. And in fact I see that most of the PRAISE GIVEN WHEN SOMEONE IS GROWING, JUST WILL MAKE A SATISFIED THEMSELVES AND STOP GROWTH. I actually PREFER IGNORING YOU, TO THINGS THAT CAN GROW FASTER AGAIN. Moreover, the praise was deserved come from my own desires. NO ASKING FOR YOUR PRAISE APPROPRIATE FROM OTHERS ".
This nice story teaches us to not give up despite the many challenges and obstacles that hinder our ideals ... Always upbeat and positive thinking to achieve your dreams and ideals.
One day, her city visited by an expert dance originating from abroad. This expert is very great, and from cold hands have a lot of born world-class dancers. This young girl wanted to dance and show her skill in front of the expert, even if it might get the chance to become her disciple. Finally the opportunity came, too. The young girl managed to meet the experts behind the stage, after a dance performance. The young girl asked "Sir, I wanted to be a world-class dancer. Do you have a moment, to judge my dancing? I want to know your opinion about my dance". "Okay, dance in front of me for 10 minutes", said the expert.
Not to mention the 10 minutes passed, the experts stood from his chair and left the young girl passed away, without saying a word. What destroyed the young girl saw the attitude of the expert. The girl ran out. Back home, she immediately burst into tears. she became a hate towards herself. Apparently during this dance that she is proud, proud is not nothing in the face of the expert. Then she took her dance shoes, and she cast into the warehouse. Since then, she vowed never to dance again.
Dozens of years passed. The young girl has now become a mother with three children. Her husband had died. And to support her family, she worked as a waitress from the corner store.
One day, there is a dance show which was held in the city. It seems the experts were among the youth dancing backstage. The experts seem old, with hair that was white. The young mother with three children also came to the dance performances. After the event, this mother brought her three children into the back of the stage, looking for the expert, and introduces her three children to the expert. The experts still recognize this young mother, and then they talked intimately.
The mother asked, "Sir, there is one question that lump in my heart. It's about my appearance while dancing in front of you many years ago. Whether the very bad for my appearance at the time, so you immediately walk away just like that, without saying a word ".
"Oh yes, I remember that event. Frankly, I've never seen dance as beautiful as you did at that time. I think you will be a world-class dancer. I do not understand why you came to the 2nd stop of the dance world," replied the expert.
The young mother was very surprised to hear answers to the expert. "It's not fair", exclaimed the young mother. "Your attitude has stolen all my dreams. If it was my good dance, why you left me just when I just danced a few minutes. You should praise me, and not just ignored me. Should I become a world-class dancer. Not only being a shop assistant ".
The experts answered again with a quiet "No. .. No, I think I've done it right. YOU DO NOT HAVE DRINK WINE ONE WINE BARREL to PROVE THAT GOOD. Likewise I. I do not have to watch you 10 minutes to prove you are good dance. That night I was also very tired after the show. So I leave you for a moment, to take my card, and hope you will contact me again the next day. But you are gone when I came out. And one more thing you should bear in mind, that IS YOU FOCUS ON YOUR DREAM, ACTION OR NOT ON MY ACKNOWLEDGMENTS.
Then praise? You expect a compliment? Ah, then you're growing. Praise is like double-edged sword. There are times when motivated you, anyway can make you weak. And in fact I see that most of the PRAISE GIVEN WHEN SOMEONE IS GROWING, JUST WILL MAKE A SATISFIED THEMSELVES AND STOP GROWTH. I actually PREFER IGNORING YOU, TO THINGS THAT CAN GROW FASTER AGAIN. Moreover, the praise was deserved come from my own desires. NO ASKING FOR YOUR PRAISE APPROPRIATE FROM OTHERS ".
This nice story teaches us to not give up despite the many challenges and obstacles that hinder our ideals ... Always upbeat and positive thinking to achieve your dreams and ideals.
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